Originally Posted by Mr B
Porn sex is what you always hope real life sex will be but are always disappointed to find out that it isn't. It is also not sex the access to which is controlled by women.....one reason it is so popular.
I have always hoped that my married life would be like a romantic novel. I too am disappointed.
In my fantasy, my husband's whole life is devoted to me and my needs. He is romantic, solves all my problems, has power and money and gets me anything I want.
Our sex is incredibly romantic and sweet. He gives me multiple orgasms within 5 mins of vj penetration.
Afterwards, we hold each other all night. When he wakes up his hair is not sticking up. And, he does not get angry when I buy a pair of Jimmy Choo's.
The problem is that in real life, men control everything, whereas, in the novels, men are more like women and understand us.
By the controlled access that disappoints you, do you mean access to a woman's body parts whenever you want? That is a dream most men have. Unfortunately, there is a sentient person with her own agenda connected to the body parts.
Give about 5 yrs someone will come up with an affordable sexbot. It will take off like the personal computer.