Originally Posted by that_girl
Then let her throw a tantrum and just do what you want to do.
Don't ask how/what/when something should be done, just do it. When she starts to throw a fit, just walk away. Train her in how to treat you. Don't say ANYTHING back to her as she starts to push your buttons and just do what you do.
OR, when she says it's her way or no way, then back off and leave it there. Let her throw a fit and just walk away. Don't engage.
That's easier said than done when I myself have a very bad temper and tend to react angrily to behavior like that, and it's not just a simple little switch that can be turned on and off easily.