Originally Posted by SunnyT
I was referring to women who say "My husband wants porn sex." What do THEY mean? Hot, messy, crazy, mokey-flucking???? Possibly silly positions? Props? Cum in places other than the vag? Is that what they don't want? Do they mean they'd like to just keep it "normal", vanilla, no change-ups, nice and tidy?
It's like I said. They aren't attracted to their man, their man wants sex, the woman rationalizes their unattractedness so she doesn't have to say she's unattracted, instead she says he's inappropriate in the type of sex he wants.
When I was old me, my wife used this. As it turned out, she just didn't respect me because I was being kinda wussy instead of taking charge.
I guess in a way it's appropriate. In porn, people just perform. And if the woman is accusing the man of wanting porn sex because she's not attracted to him, that's exactly what he's asking: he's asking her to just perform.