Originally Posted by Entropy3000

Counseling begins today. At some point he will be hearing about some real resentmant towards him. he may get some cluse as to the root causes of her lack of respect for him or her entitlement. It may not be about him but for sure it is about the marriage. Most men will take the responsibility on themselves to fix things. Unfortunately that rarely works. It takes two.

She is very much focused on her prusuit of happiness and feels entitled to do what she feels like doing. Independent behavior. Not sure how many sessions it will take to begin to see this? In the mean time she is doing her thing.