Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - NOW I get it. Too late for an old dog... ?

DjF · 06-19-2012, 09:34 AM

If it were me, I'd let the dust settle some more before any decisions are rushed into...2 months isn't that long of a separation, emotions are still frayed, rational thoughts are needed, not emotional decisions...it took us a year into our separation before either of us were ready to start healing our relationship...we had to fix ourselves first...

keep minimal contact, and work on your self...have some fun too!

That said, I would set up some boundaries with her and her other "relationships"...no physical contact...so on, thats up to you...if she doesn't agreem it might be time to move on...

06-19-2012, 09:34 AM	#3 (permalink)
DjF Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Midwest Posts: 417	Re: NOW I get it. Too late for an old dog... ? If it were me, I'd let the dust settle some more before any decisions are rushed into...2 months isn't that long of a separation, emotions are still frayed, rational thoughts are needed, not emotional decisions...it took us a year into our separation before either of us were ready to start healing our relationship...we had to fix ourselves first... keep minimal contact, and work on your self...have some fun too! That said, I would set up some boundaries with her and her other "relationships"...no physical contact...so on, thats up to you...if she doesn't agreem it might be time to move on... __________________ I firmly believe that love is a game of control, or maybe true love is a game of giving up control...and if both give up control, then neither have it but the shared one do... bad love contols us like pawns on a chess board...