Originally Posted by njpca
I believe I could do the looking part, but then she will require some sort of answer
njp, do you see how you are GIVING her control over you?
She can require
til the cows come home. That doesn't mean you have to PARTICIPATE!
Stop thinking like she has the right to tell you what to do!
I can REQUIRE that my boss give me a $10,000 raise. She would look at me and laugh. And walk away.
Do you see how REQUIRE is just YOU giving away control over yourself?