 Re: Drowning! No rescue!
It is NOT your responsibility to keep him alive. His constant abuse of you and your children has led you to believe his life is in your hands. You cannot stop him from harming himself, he's made these threats for as long as you've been posting on this forum. Please inform the police when he threatens to commit suicide or abuses you in the future. If there are no consequences for his behavior he will never change.
Your children are likely becoming codependent because of this relationship, so make sure they're seeing someone suited for this issue. In addition, make certain that your home is secure and that you have the means to defend yourself and your children if necessary. I'm fearful that your XH would harm you and your children before taking his own life, if it ever came to that.
Please reinstate NC. Make it clear to all family/friends that NC means they are not to pass on messages for your XH. If they don't listen, they should no longer be welcome in your life. Your XH has NOT changed. I know you see that. PLEASE PROTECT YOURSELF!
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