Hello,
My fiance & I have been trying to get back on track with each other sexually after a couple of rough years. He used to be addicted to porn and we have successfully worked through that issue together. But this problem did leave me with a lot of insecurities and hurt. Not only were we going through this issue, but I was diagnosed with a medical issue that I now have to take meds for and those have greatly decreased my sexual desire. On top of this, I was raised by staunch Catholics...need I say more?
So I've always been VERY shy and insecure and sometimes even ashamed when it comes to sex.
My question is, how have some of you let go of the hurt you've experienced from your SO? How were you able to open yourself up again when it came to sex and get past your fears and insecurities? Like I said, I've always been so shy and these last couple of years have kind of locked that part of myself away and I've had a very hard time accessing it.
I hope this post makes sense.
Thanks for reading!