Originally Posted by happilymarried67

Trust your intuition. You are suspicious for a reason. I could be wrong, but he doesn't seem like he has made that commitment to you. He states, "he wouldn't get jealous if you were txting another guy." It seems to me that he doesn't care very much about the relationship. If my husband did that or I did that, then there is a deep problem in the marriage. I text my hubby frequently during the day, sending love and lust notes through the day so that he knows that I think about him often and want him. It shouldn't be up to another woman to take your place with him in any aspect of the marriage. He shouldn't be texting other woman. That is just wrong. I don't trust what he is up too. What starts as innocent may not stay that way. I've seen it many times. Trust you instincts.