Re: Past issues, shyness, how to get past?
Communication is the key and then you just gotta let go of the past because that is where it should remain. If he is out of the porn watching then all the power to you. I was raised catholic and I love part of what it did for me I do not feel ashamed or insecure when it comes to sex and procreation that is why we are here IMO. I suggest you talk to your doctor about the decrease in your libido caused from your meds maybe he/she can try a different med. I also would try to do everything in my power not to stay on any meds unless it is for heart, bp, diabetes (that is just me) or something else that is life threatening. I found that exercise and nutrition helped depression, decreased my bp and helped my headaches. As for shyness, you have to work on getting over that, you need to feel positive about who you are and how much you deserve to enjoy sex and intimacy. Remember it is natural and something that is very loving between a couple. Please try to put issues that are in the past in the past where they belong. I hope this post made sense back.
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