happilymarried67

I don't know, I agree with alot of stuff that was posted. Especially if it offends you then your husband should respect you and not do it.

Night shift has awful affects on your body, we are just not meant to be nocturnal. I am sure that doesn't help hormonal levels for him.

I like porn stories that I read, I never really get bothered by it. I understand what amp said, but I could of got mixed up in that seedy life too when I was young. I chose not to. I think it is all about being honest and respectful of each other. My hubby doesn't care if I look at porn or read it. I don't care if he looks at it either. He knows that it just makes me lust after him more and visa versa. I do have a problem with talking or IMing real people who are half naked on myspace that is crossing the line IMO because that could lead to trouble esp. in your own town. That is what worries me.

He also has his own issues just like you dealing with a new born in the home. Talk and communicate with each other, ask him why this is important to him now that the baby is born. Tell him why it affect you and probably increases your insecurities and depression. It's a start.

Oh yeah, and sometimes a guy may have difficulty being intimate with a new mom because he knows you just had a baby and where it came from. He could be a little scared of hurting you or of getting you pregnant again. Just and FYI

Best of Luck~

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