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Hello. I am 27 year old woman, who is on the verge of a break down. I have been married for two years. We have an eleven month boy and I'm 3 months pregnant. I am so fed up with my husband, I have little hope that this relationship will last. We have only been married for 2 years and they have been the worst two years of my life. The first year of our marriage we moved away cross country just to start our new life together. At first it was nice, but soon after everytime we got into an arguement he would leave and not come home until really late. I wondered what he could be doing since we didn't know anyone where we lived, but I soon found out he was going to the casino and blowing a lot of money. He did this from what I know of 2-3 times a month. It was horrible. I couldn't take it anymore so we moved back. Because of all the credit card debt which no one knew about, but my mom we had to live with my parents. This has also been a nightmare. My husband's late nights didn't stop. Finally I told him to get help. We went one time and he started to control himself. It's not as bad as before, but he still goes to the casino. But it's not only that, if he even sees that there is a little money saved up in our bank account, it's like he's itchin to spend it, which he does. Because of the senseless money spending, we can never do anything. I feel like he doesn't care at all. He only cares about his own happiness. He claims I always want to be under my parents but this is far from the truth. I'm afraid to live with him, because I'm afraid I'll get more debt. He says that he goes out because he doesn't want to live in my parents' house. HELP SOMEONE PLEASE!!!