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anchorwatch · 06-20-2012, 08:36 AM

Joe, I don't like it at all, but that's me. My wife with another man, over night, no communication, no electric, while she is trying to get over a depressing event. Why not with me??? This comforting event should shared with me, not another man. That slope is too slippery for me.

I can understand your mind set that if she cheats, she cheats and there's nothing you can do about it. But I wouldn't be party to to her being in a situation where something could happen. I know my wife wouldn't either and she'd be disappointed if I'd allowed it. Those are our boundaries. I'm not jealous, I'm protective.

Hope she finds peace with her Mom's passing.

06-20-2012, 08:36 AM	#2 (permalink)
anchorwatch Forum Supporter Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: On the Island Posts: 1,703	Re: First I was angry, then I thought about it Joe, I don't like it at all, but that's me. My wife with another man, over night, no communication, no electric, while she is trying to get over a depressing event. Why not with me??? This comforting event should shared with me, not another man. That slope is too slippery for me. I can understand your mind set that if she cheats, she cheats and there's nothing you can do about it. But I wouldn't be party to to her being in a situation where something could happen. I know my wife wouldn't either and she'd be disappointed if I'd allowed it. Those are our boundaries. I'm not jealous, I'm protective. Hope she finds peace with her Mom's passing.