A few years ago we had a graduation party for our son. My husband after many drinks started rubbing on a friends leg and inner thigh. She said later she didn't even realize because she was drunk also. I hadn't been drinking so later I asked him about it. He said he just wanted some love. That I always yell at him and I think he can't do anything right. I know that I try to do to much sometimes & I was really busy trying to get the party together so I may of got snappy a few times. It has been 3 years and I still think about that night alot. He is a good man, he has never cheated. But do I think that he would?....I don't know. Do I trust him?...I don't know. I want to let it go. But why can't I? I see the way he is so helpful to my friend whom I watch her child. He'll help her out with the port-a-crib or diaper bag but I could be moving a heavy rug and no help. I asked why don't you help me? He answer was, "I don't want to fight with you." I am confussed can someone give me some ideas. I know I over anyalize things to much in my mind. But I would appreciate any advice you may have.