Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - It never ends,,,shes spiralling out of her mind

Paradise · 06-20-2012, 02:42 PM

Let me get this straight. You normally would have her in daycare, right? For 500 a month? Now she isn't in daycare, correct? And that 500 is now going to the ex wife's pocket. Craziness indeed.

My ex pulls the same crap. a little here, a bit more there and always accompanied by some little bit of guilt.

You are going to have to draw the line somewhere, shoo. You are going to have to make a decision and then politely be firm about it. Your ex sounds like mine, however. She will constantly repeat the same things over and over until she gets her way. Always a "you should do this" attached to it.

I get texts and e-mails like this every week or so. Always trying to sway things in her favor just a little. But those little things add up.

Just smile at her and tell her no problem on the food. You will take care of it. Pack a lunch and a few snacks and send her over. If she complains about that suggest that you will buy some locks for he old cabinets so that your daughter won't be sneaking into them when she is over there.

06-20-2012, 02:42 PM	#7 (permalink)
Paradise Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 297	Re: It never ends,,,shes spiralling out of her mind Let me get this straight. You normally would have her in daycare, right? For 500 a month? Now she isn't in daycare, correct? And that 500 is now going to the ex wife's pocket. Craziness indeed. My ex pulls the same crap. a little here, a bit more there and always accompanied by some little bit of guilt. You are going to have to draw the line somewhere, shoo. You are going to have to make a decision and then politely be firm about it. Your ex sounds like mine, however. She will constantly repeat the same things over and over until she gets her way. Always a "you should do this" attached to it. I get texts and e-mails like this every week or so. Always trying to sway things in her favor just a little. But those little things add up. Just smile at her and tell her no problem on the food. You will take care of it. Pack a lunch and a few snacks and send her over. If she complains about that suggest that you will buy some locks for he old cabinets so that your daughter won't be sneaking into them when she is over there.