| | Re: Would you consider paying a (female) prostitute to satisfy you?
Mary, you really need to find out what is going on. Ask him bluntly if it is the look of it, the smell of it, the lack of confidence in his skills etc.. some things you can change, some not but at least you won't be wondering.
I don't know what normal is, but I would stay down on my wife as long as she would let me. There are times when she only wants sex but afterwards, decides she wants oral and I still do it willingly (after she cleans a little).
He should want to do it, ask to do it. Damn, another guy not responding well to a healthy sexual female.