happilymarried67

Before my marriage to my wonderful husband I was married to my first husband. He was into porn and swinging. Watching porn or viewing it in magazines didn't offend me but I found the swinging made me feel insecure and a like a peice of meat. I do not recommend it to spice up your sex life unless your wife is totally not the jealous type. If you are adding just another guy, it again did nothing for me but push me farther away from my husband. I was around 21-22 when this occurred. I was all for trying knew things but I don't think that it is a wonderful way to improve your marriage. It did quite the opposite. It had great impact on me with anorexia and bulemia just not feeling good enough for my husband He wanted to spice it up outside the marriage. Becareful With my husband now, we have 4 wonderful kids and great sex life. We keep it spiced ourselves with date nights, overnights, and great sex night, but I believe it really should be a man and wife only. You need to really discuss this and if she has any reservations at all you need to not forces this issue and seeks some guidance in spicing up your relationship as a couple. Be very careful. I think I might have felt just life your wife. I battled my eating disorder for years and years after thatl. It is not a pleasant memory for me.

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