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Old 06-21-2012, 04:25 AM   #4 (permalink)
DanF
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Default Re: Young marriage, LT relationship need advice

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We started dating around 10 years ago and for many of those years it was a volatile relationship in large part because we were both young.
Volatility has nothing to do with "youth".


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Also, she was more sexually active than me and the issue always seemed to come up.
She was more sexually active than you when you were dating?!

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Among this group there was a lot of intra-dating. My wife's best friend in this group "Katie," was actually sleeping with a coworker while she was dating her future husband at the time. My wife eventually took interest in a coworker during a weekend group trip. Nothing happened during the trip but from the trip pictures, it wasn't hard to see that an unusual number were just her and this coworker (in friendly poses, but still unusual).
She hangs out with a cheater and you think nothing happened but kissing and groping? I wouldn't believe that for a second.

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We had lots of fights and lots of breakups, but a few days after this breakup my wife ended up sleeping over her coworkers' place where they fooled around (groped, kissed). She made it clear that we really were broken up and I was destroyed. I ended up taking a few days off of work and taking the train to my brother's place in Philly. She stayed over at the coworker's place again the next night for more making out and groping.
They did more than grope and kiss.

You were in an unhealthy relationship and married without resolving any issues. What made you think a wedding band and a slip of paper would change that?
You married a cheater.

Yes, I am rough, blunt, and to the point.
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