| | Re: The Making of the Nice Guy?
You know Lon social skills are exceedingly easy. All you have to be is interested in the other person. Thatís it. It really is that simple.
You demonstrate your interest by asking the other person questions. Thatís all you do. So in say an hours chat, you may have spoken for 5 minutes and the other person for 55 minutes. Guess what? The other person will go away thinking theyíve had an excellent conversation and what a truly great and interesting person you are!
If you really want to make yourself interesting and interact with like minded people then get yourself two or three passions and become an expert in them!
On the other hand you could be massively self-defacing, self-defeating and negative. The choice as they say is yours to make.
If you are depressed, get yourself a camera and get out and photograph some of the wonders of nature. Then you will see the beauty thatís all around you that you are absolutely blinded to right now.