Ok for the original poster, Luckily for you I can help you out, I have worked the "third Shift" for 5 years (currently on it again for 3 months, rotating)
The third Shift Really takes a Toll on your body physically and mentally, the posts are right above on that, I am Always tired, my diet is horrible, my stomach always hurts, my head is always foggy, and since I was ont he nights for 5 years, then went back to days, as Drac says, Insomnia is common, I wake up all the time 3 or 4 times a night, only time I sleep through the night is if I get trashed drinking and pass out, which frankly I can't do becuase I hate hang overs.
Now, I do look at porn and all that stuff, instead of my wife "rejecting it" she accepted it and even got me a subscription to playboy mag for christmas.
But as one poster said, I prefer my wife. Porn can be boring, it is all acting anyway, but it's good for masturbation, especially when your exhausted from the night shift.
But I can assure you your hubby prefers you. The night shift also affects your sexual behavior, I became more risky wanted different things, my wife rolled witht his.
We bought some outfits, "school girl" "french maid" "naughty Nurse" etc. And we took some digital photo's and some Home video's. I prefer looking at her pics and video's then the professionals.
Would you let your hubby do that? would you do some Role Playing with him?
Comming home from the night shift to find my wife in the kitchen in a French maid outfit.....COMPLETELY HOT!
I assure you your hubby loves you, he may distance himself because your in "mom mode"....sometimes he wants the naughty vixen.
There is a saying out there, "men want their women to be nice ladies outside of the house, but naughty women inside of the house"
you get the drift....Be sensual with him, be flirty, be naughty with him.
and if your worried aboutt eh whole baby weight thingy....don't we really don't care, he married YOU because he finds YOU sexy, and wants YOU to be the naughty girl in his life.......So be it, take control, live a wild fantasy.
A good website for sexy costumes is three wishes or Buy costumes, we get ours from three wishes.
Also for the "anti-porn" people.... look up asia carrea, she played Piano at Carnige Hall in NYC at the age of 15, then attending Rutgers Univrsity on a full scholarship (before graduating HS) majoring in Japanese and Business, a member of Mensa with a IQ of 155. After graduating she decided to become a Porn star because she enjoyed it....
If you don't like porn that is fine then don't like it, but don't tell other people they are sick or whatever because they do like it, it is a multi billion dollar industry for a reason, and more and more women like it.
I do watch is sometimes, but hardly an addict, I rather watch video's of my wife.