GAsoccerman

Hey Whathappened...

You are going throught eh emotional rollercoaster that is called life, and it is a long bumpy ride.

My wife and I dated 7 years...While in COllege. I was in NJ she was in Pittsburgh...so like you it was a long distance relationship, We did not have Cell phones or the internet back then, just Landline phones, so we talked all the time.

Which probably made our relationship very strong, becuase we are very solid communication wise, also very trusting.

Look at the bright side, she wants to talk to you and chat with you, she is not avoiding you. That is a great sign.

Nothing you can really do here is go day by day and if it works out then great, if not then it won't.

But all I can say is Do not worry about what she is doing, that will drive you nuts, just do your own thing, hang with your friends, enjoy life. Talk to her when you can, get together when you can.

you both may have flings over this time period, but if you keep going back to each other, it is better to get this out of the way while dating then when married.

All I can say is play it loose, enjoy your time together, if your meant to be it will work out in the end.

We dated 7 years, while living in different states, talked alot and flings happened....but now we have been married 11 years, 3 kids and a extremely strong marriage.

Best of luck kid, Ride the rollercoaster and enjoy the thrills.....But you are not doomed.

Also you ahve the joy of phone, video and e-mail sex...be creative and have fun with it.

It's a rollercoaster ride, but a very rewarding one if you do not let Jealousy get the best of you.

Remember it's a Marathon, not a sprint.