Cooper

Thanks for your thoughts Lisa. To answer your question about turning the other cheek I have been doing that my whole life. Not because I fear confrontation but because I know I can take more than others. I became a care giver at a young age and I am still giving to much to always make others happy. When my wife and I talk of divorce her main concern is how would she make it on her own financially. Even though I am unhappy I can't bring myself to change her life that dramatically. Sometimes I hope she will tell me she is going to move out just so the guilt won't be on me. We just keep moving through the days without resolving anything. If we hated each other things would be much eaiser. I think she could get to the point of hating me but I don't think I have it in me to hate her, even if she is having an affair. How sad is that. Cooper