Football, we are going to agree to disagree.
I was never a Huge Porn fan, it's ok, I mean, yea the guys are all huge, they "last forever" the women do every trick int he book no problem.....But that is what they are paid to do, and that is how the film is spliced......the problem lies when people think porn is like "real life" it's not, it's porn. Just like Star wars is star wars, it's a movie, not realistic.
I was just saying to my wife today, I said, it must be hard having a husband that after 18 years still desires your body and wants you all the time.....She is like yep it is...with a laugh.
I am a man I am a sexual creature by nature. My wife is not, but she understands that I am.
So if she is not in the mood to have sex with me and I am horny what should I do??? Say Oh well I love my wife and since she said no, I should just go to bed and go to sleep?? feeling the urge in me, that testorne (sp?) building. getting hornier by the second....but she says no?? This is where Porn comes in handy...a few minutes...the urge is no gone, I am relieved and my wife is happily a sleep....not being bothered.
She knows I want sex 3-4 times a day from her, but obviously she doesn't. she wants it 3-4 times a week...big difference.
So I see porn as a tool, so does my wife.....it's just a movie with naked people having sex. No different then a steamy R rated movie that hides it.
Plus no man wants to hear his wife say, "wow those guys are HUGE!" it really builds up our self confidence!
porn can be cruel as well to men. LOL
But I think baby has little to worry about, I am sure she rather her man be stroking to porn as oppossed to somewhere else....or should I say someone else.
There is worse things then porn out there.
and I been with my wife 18 years and never once "drifted" from her....She will take the porn watching over the alternative any day.
Plus the whole...Sex is love...yes that is true....but is also an urge and hormones can be cruel. When Love says, "no" what are we to do?