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Corina · 05-18-2008, 10:20 AM

First, I'm so sorry you're going through this. You have been & are amazingly strong. More than 10 years of this kind of a relationship! It sounds like you are taking some steps to take care of yourself for a change, and that is exactly what, imho, you need.
Children pick up on things, even if they don't see or comprehend what is going on, then still know and sense that something is not right. "Divorce" does not have to be a dirty word, and as far as I know, if he is the bread-winner, then he will have to continue supporting you and the kids no matter what.
But just because he is the bread-winner, he has absolutely no right to treat you like you are less than you are or to keep you from being who you want to be. Good luck and our thoughts are with you!

05-18-2008, 10:20 AM	#6 (permalink)
Corina Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Europe Posts: 38	Re: Is this love? First, I'm so sorry you're going through this. You have been & are amazingly strong. More than 10 years of this kind of a relationship! It sounds like you are taking some steps to take care of yourself for a change, and that is exactly what, imho, you need. Children pick up on things, even if they don't see or comprehend what is going on, then still know and sense that something is not right. "Divorce" does not have to be a dirty word, and as far as I know, if he is the bread-winner, then he will have to continue supporting you and the kids no matter what. But just because he is the bread-winner, he has absolutely no right to treat you like you are less than you are or to keep you from being who you want to be. Good luck and our thoughts are with you!