| | Re: Please Help my military marriage.
Thank you for serving our country. It sounds as if your wife has been dedicated to the marriage and is tired of being alone. It also sounds as if you realize how you contributed to that, so now it's time to show her how you can be there for her. And yes, certainly get in counseling and if there is any way you can get an extension on your reassignment or any other time off, now would be the time to take it and work on saving your marriage.