Hi there and welcome to the blog world. I ran into your blog via a google search for something else about AA and alcoholism. I'm a recovering alcoholic and have been blogging about it for awhile now.
Anyway, if you are looking for any online support from other spouses with alcoholic partners, you might want to start with Syd at his blog
I'm just F.I.N.E.-- Recovery in Al-Anon. He is in Al-Anon and has really gotten a great perspective on life. I think he'd be a great resource. From there, he has links to other blogs to people in similar situations.
Not quite the same, but almost is the blog thejunkyswife.com, whose husband is a heroine addict. She's a strong lady and writes with raw honesty about living with her husband.
Anyway, I wish you best of luck. You're welcome to email me or stop my blog as well (vicariousrising.typepad.com
vicariousrising@msn.com)
Judith