| | I think the sexual spark has died
I'm not real good at describing things but I will try and maybe
someone out there can help. My wife and I have been married for eighteen years. For the majority of those our sex life was very full and satisfying but starting a couple of years ago problems started. She began saying no a lot more often, which is fine I understand that levels of desire can change over years. But then the excuses became more and more,lets just say, thin. And it became obvious that the playful touching and playing around we allways enjoyed now either bored her or completely disinterested her. The final straw was when I discovered that while sending me on errands she would masturbate using a sex toy that no average man could ever match up to. Any advice or maybe even sympathy will be greatly appreciated, I'm so tired of wondering what I've done wrong.