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She is in the wrong here. She obviously lied about the ex in ft lauderdale. I wouldn't mention anything about it while shes gone. If nothing is up, then you're making much ado about nothing. This next step is going to require big patience. Stay on the phone records. Memorize how many more are sent. And when she returns, ask to see her phone immediately, or sneak it if you can. If all the messages are there, good. Read them and look for anything to see if they met up. Assuming you snuck this, ask her while playing dumb if she did meet up with an ex.
Now if she deleted them, then you have red flag number one. Now you know shes hiding something and will lie. But use this to your advantage. Ask her if she contracted or spoke with any exes. If she says no, immediately memorize her reaction. This way you will know what she looks like while lying. Then Ask if she met up with that same ex. You should be able to figure out if shes lying now.
Point is, don't play your cards right away. Use it to your advantage to see where the lies are. Like I said, hopefully its meaningless and, she just doesn't want you to get unnecessarily jealous (going about it the very wrong way on her part )
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Last edited by LOSTfan; 06-25-2012 at 12:08 AM.