Originally Posted by TBT
Torn,welcome to TAM and I really hope you get some good advice here,but prepare yourself for some harshness as well.I think your confusion is from the fog of the affair.It's apparent it's warring with your basic values or you wouldn't be reaching out for help and to me that is a step in the right direction.What I'm curious about right now is why you think you can't leave your husband?
I appreciate your input. I am looking for answers, anything I can get. Right now, I dont have anyone to tell how I really feel inside, its killing me. If we divorce, I'm afraid that he will end up getting custody of my daughter because it was me who cheated. I stop talking to the OM but I dont know what will happen if he insist on seeing me again.