Originally Posted by Tornbetweenthetwo
Thanks for your honesty. I don't have the courage to tell my husband that I cheated. I am so lost right now. I ask him today, ihe could take me out to dinner, or watch movies with me this week, he's typical replies "Well see, we just have so many things to do in our home". I don't know how to tell him that our marriage is in trouble. I'm sure he would want a divorce if he finds out and I dont know if I am ready for that.
Here's the rub. Your husband already knows. He's been married to you for 6 years. He knows when something is different about you. If something feels "off" about the marriage. He may not know EXACTLY what's happening. But, he knows something is up. It wouldn't surprise me if he's already started looking into things.