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Old 06-24-2012, 10:05 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Default Re: I want out... suggestions?

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If I didn't have 2 dogs with him (that he loves just as much as I do), it would be super easy to leave him.
I didn't think this was a valid reason to stay with someone. I had to read this twice to make sure you said dogs not kids


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I'm tempted to open up a new bank account, pack up all of my stuff while he is at work one day and leave with the dogs... Any suggestions?
Looks like you have the right idea. It all depends how good you are hiding your money from him. Unfortunately in CA even after divorce you are still financially tethered at the hip. You'll be paying him alimony, all you can end is the obligation to be around him and have sex.

(......... sucks, doesn't it? )
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