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Originally Posted by EleGirl  Do you think that a man who refuses most sex with his wife for 6 years and refuses to do anything with her is a good moral example of a father? |
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Originally Posted by EleGirl I don't know about that. People here seem to mostly believe that cheating is the worse thing that a spouse can do. From my experience I can get over cheating. I cannot get over abuse.
If the negligence and sexual w/holding that the OP describe are true, her husband is exptremely abusive emotionally.
I see them as equal. If he is like this, he emotionally left the marriag a long time ago. |
You think infidelity isn't abuse? Infidelity is one of the most heinous thing to do in a marriage or to your partner, no doubt about that.
So much for affair apologists.
And please don't give arbitrary definitions for abuse. I agree with that there is emotional neglect but that is why people go to counseling, start communicating better or separate and divorce when it won't work out, not have affairs.
A woman comes here saying that she is in an affair and first thing you tell her is that she is in abusive marriage with the little details you get from her post? Like I said, abuse isn't a word you throw around lightly. You need more details than that.
