| | Re: Lost in Confusion
Where anywhere did he state she's physically cheated on him before. Spending money to fly down and crash a planned girls weekend isn't manning up. Its jealousy pure and simple. Manning up is using the time alone to work on himself and becoming a more independant person. The kind where, if she is cheating on him, he won't take her back, hell know his self worth and won't be on message boards doubting himself...
Flying down to ft lauderdale to pretend its to be romantic is a lie. Its not honest, wrong or right on what she's doing, he's being deceitful and jealous. That is not healthy. He can gain the mental upperhand by keeping tabs on the phone records and confronting her when she comes home. He doesn't need a plane ticket to figure this one out. All he has to do is ask when she gets back. Deleted texts: cheating. No deleted texts, and a simple up and up convo: probably not cheating. A lie about it in any part of the story: cheating or just not a healthy relationship.
Either way hell have his answers without risking looking like a jealous stalker crashing what could be an innocent girls weekend.
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