Originally Posted by The Middleman
I'm on the same page as you, but what if waiting means she now has the opportunity to have sex? And what if she doesn have sex with the guy? Isn't that worse? I know it's not a good idea going in with guns blazing without all the information, but the alternative can be a b1tch.
Agree it's possible but I feel it's unlikely he's caught an affair just before it goes physical. More likely somethings already going on, or it's not going to, immediately anyway. Plus there's the fact that going in all guns blazing could easily actually drive her into the arms of OM.