| | Re: Touchless Marriage
never said anything about "force"
but my wife is very passive and submissive. If I do not initiate, then it will never happen.
She doesn't even like to do store returns due to the "confrotation" factor.
Sounds like you both gave up a long time ago and neither one of you are willing to correct it.
my point is simple, "if you want something go after it" not meaning being aggressive, but persistent.
My wife and I were wathcing Indiana Jones last night, she was all hot an bothered by harrison ford, i asked her why, and she said, "well he is a take charge kind of guy, but also a nice guy, not a jerk" women like that in general.
they don't like complete jerks and aggressive personalities, nor dot hey like the ultra soft, push over guy. They like majority of us in the middle.
that is my point.
I wish you the best of luck, sorry she is so distant, not sure if there is much left you can do besides move on.