GAsoccerman

Happy, good reply, different people have different takes from what information was handed to them in school. I was raised catholic for the record, but I went to a Public school (bad boy, bad boy whatcha going to do)

Anyway for my wife she always viewed anything that was sexual as bad, that is the impression she got from her teachings, I had to break those barriers down. avibrator was out of the question for her....until....etc.

You really can't generalize any particular schooling, as you said, your school might ahve been more "accepting" as her school wasn't, or she just pulled different levels of acceptence from what was taught.

but I see alot of Irish in my wife, she has supressed any urges or acceptence of what is viewed by the church.

Yes catholics are supposed to wait until marriage to have sex, then push out as many kids possible. We don't follow that, remember using a condem is a bad thing by the catholic church.

But I agree with that generizing all catholics is not what I meant only for my wife and what she got from it and the battle we ahd over comming those teachings. Irish may have the same hang ups as my wife, she will need to work through those and realize it is ok to try new things and new positions with the man she loves.

just trying to help her break down that barrier, but I find it cool you stuck to your guns and spoke your mind. Kudos.