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Fromnowhere · 05-19-2008, 10:54 AM

My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I am military and have been away for about 3 of those 7 years. On the most recent trip I met someone and it got serious pretty quickly. I know this is very wrong and unfair to my wife. The problem is that I am falling in love with the other woman and am sure she is with me despite the fact she is aware I am married.
I am amazed that this happened and am not at all sure what to do. I know this is unfair to both of them and I can't honestly say who I want to be with...

This now makes me really question my motives getting married originally and if I have been living out of convenience for the last 7 years. Anyone know of any good books or material to help someomedecide the right course of action?

05-19-2008, 10:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
Fromnowhere Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2	Infidelity and confusion from the other side My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I am military and have been away for about 3 of those 7 years. On the most recent trip I met someone and it got serious pretty quickly. I know this is very wrong and unfair to my wife. The problem is that I am falling in love with the other woman and am sure she is with me despite the fact she is aware I am married. I am amazed that this happened and am not at all sure what to do. I know this is unfair to both of them and I can't honestly say who I want to be with... This now makes me really question my motives getting married originally and if I have been living out of convenience for the last 7 years. Anyone know of any good books or material to help someomedecide the right course of action?