Originally Posted by normans_mom
I have a problem, however, with how he jokes around with friends and family sometimes. He will say inappropriate or off-color sexual remarks that make me very uncomfortable.
You train people how to treat you. At the moment there is no consequence to his behavior. I'd tell him that until he stops with the sex jokes you won't be around him when he's with family and friends. Don't participate in situations where you know he will act this way. Tell him it's hurtful and embarrassing. Tell him you're done and will take steps towards not dealing with it anymore.
As far as him doing it to the friends and family that's not your problem it's theirs. They will have to stop him in the same manner. If you all took a stand against this he would stop. If everyone began to refuse to hang out with him because of this he'd stop.
The problem is you're all allowing it to continue by seething in private but taking no action.