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Old 05-19-2008, 11:09 AM   #3 (permalink)
happilymarried67
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Default Re: Infidelity and confusion from the other side

I can see how it happened. You are just in a horrible situation. I would seek a therapist to help you sort through your feelings. The truth of the matter is if you want your marriage to work you need to let go of the other woman. Completely and work soley on getting your marriage back together. If you are not going to work on your relationship with your wife you owe it to her, to let her go so she can have a life. If there are children involved then you should let your affair go and work on your relationship with your wife because it doesn't sound like there were any other issues that would make me believe that the marriage should end in a divorce.
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