Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Infidelity and confusion from the other side

Fromnowhere · 05-19-2008, 11:42 AM

The biggest problem I have with my wife is sex. When we are appart she works out and maintains herslef, so when I come home there is a lot of attraction and "spark" there. But after about 2 months she gets comfortable, gets lazy, stops working out, stops eating right and usually gains weight. It has nothing to with the weight alone but being married to someone that is so comfortable is playing hell on my loyalties and interst.

Another big issue is children, we both want them but she can't have any due to a horrible ectopic pregnancy during my first deployment to iraq.

No I do not think the other is due to convenience as it is most definitely not convenient, especially in the environment im in as well as the military holding adultery as a punishable crime unlike civilian law.

05-19-2008, 11:42 AM	#4 (permalink)
Fromnowhere Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 2	Re: Infidelity and confusion from the other side The biggest problem I have with my wife is sex. When we are appart she works out and maintains herslef, so when I come home there is a lot of attraction and "spark" there. But after about 2 months she gets comfortable, gets lazy, stops working out, stops eating right and usually gains weight. It has nothing to with the weight alone but being married to someone that is so comfortable is playing hell on my loyalties and interst. Another big issue is children, we both want them but she can't have any due to a horrible ectopic pregnancy during my first deployment to iraq. No I do not think the other is due to convenience as it is most definitely not convenient, especially in the environment im in as well as the military holding adultery as a punishable crime unlike civilian law.