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mollyL · 05-19-2008, 01:06 PM

I have to say: There is no "was" to soul mates. You either are or are not, and that's forever. "Soul mates" is a phrase that is thrown about alot these days, and it demeans the term.
I'm afraid that I think you were actually her "rebound" guy. That she has alot of extra baggage as was said before is true. That she wanted to come back after she left I think means that her ex was not treating her as the "diva" she seems to be and that you do. She sounds a right user to me. I think you should find a woman that appreciates your loving ways and can return the favour.

05-19-2008, 01:06 PM	#7 (permalink)
mollyL Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 126	Re: my wife wants her ex back I have to say: There is no "was" to soul mates. You either are or are not, and that's forever. "Soul mates" is a phrase that is thrown about alot these days, and it demeans the term. I'm afraid that I think you were actually her "rebound" guy. That she has alot of extra baggage as was said before is true. That she wanted to come back after she left I think means that her ex was not treating her as the "diva" she seems to be and that you do. She sounds a right user to me. I think you should find a woman that appreciates your loving ways and can return the favour.