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confusedinTX · 05-19-2008, 03:23 PM

You are not being hard on yourself and in my opinion he should be glad that your daughter has that love for you and still needs and wants you in your life and is not out there plotting to kill her teacher like those 3rd graders or out having sex. You are so lucky to have a strong connection with her and that will pay off as she gets older. A trust now might help her come to you when times are hard as a teen so she doesn't find herself in trouble. That was the case with me and my mom. I don't get his reaction but please don't think you are overreacting to it. I hope things get better with professional help and he moves forward with the adoption. I think you should be proud of yourself for having a child who is that connected to you and I can only hope I can say the same when I daughter is that age.

05-19-2008, 03:23 PM	#21 (permalink)
confusedinTX Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 23	Re: Should I stay or should I go You are not being hard on yourself and in my opinion he should be glad that your daughter has that love for you and still needs and wants you in your life and is not out there plotting to kill her teacher like those 3rd graders or out having sex. You are so lucky to have a strong connection with her and that will pay off as she gets older. A trust now might help her come to you when times are hard as a teen so she doesn't find herself in trouble. That was the case with me and my mom. I don't get his reaction but please don't think you are overreacting to it. I hope things get better with professional help and he moves forward with the adoption. I think you should be proud of yourself for having a child who is that connected to you and I can only hope I can say the same when I daughter is that age.