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Sorry, I didn't read all the posts. The sex issue is a tough one. Now you probably feel awful.
Why if you two tried kind of starting over with sex? Promise you both must be honest with each other about what you like and dislike. Then spend some time just getting to know each other's body. No pressure that there must be "the final act" but just some time exploring each other and saying what feels good.
Do this after an evening out together doing something fun and enjoyable so this won't feel like work....but rather an extension of a pleasant time together.