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Lon · 06-27-2012, 08:50 AM

right there is an example of how communication can break down.

Carras never said he wanted other women over his W, he admitted that he is not feeling it and wants to, and his mind is turning to thoughts of other women. That right there is no dealbreaker, it is basic biology, the fact he comes here to discuss this means he wants to fix this, the fact that he can't go to his wife with this makes it very dangerous - being warned that his W should threaten divorce is certainly not facilitating communication or helping him work this issue out in any useful way.

06-27-2012, 08:50 AM	#64 (permalink)
Lon Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 5,701	Re: A little help ladies - I'm losing interest in sex w/ the wife right there is an example of how communication can break down. Carras never said he wanted other women over his W, he admitted that he is not feeling it and wants to, and his mind is turning to thoughts of other women. That right there is no dealbreaker, it is basic biology, the fact he comes here to discuss this means he wants to fix this, the fact that he can't go to his wife with this makes it very dangerous - being warned that his W should threaten divorce is certainly not facilitating communication or helping him work this issue out in any useful way.