| | Re: Losing interest in sex w/ the wife
This is going to get ripped apart, but I'm going to be honest:
Part of it is the chase, the unknown, the challenge, seeing how far I can push her beyond her boundaries, how crazy can I make her, but there's also the newness of different color skin, different smells, different breast size, different nipples, different body types, hair, lips, eyes, etc.
There's also the lack of (known) baggage in the new partner - obviously, everyone brings their own baggage, but with a new partner, you don't know about it (yet).
Trust me, I appreciate the great sex that can be had with someone you know and love and have been with for a while. But I also know the great sex that can be had with someone you've just met and lust after.
I realize the audience here is pro the former and anti the latter, so fire away.