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mssherlock22 · 06-27-2012, 04:15 PM

I need opinions on the follow-up situation after my discovering my H's EA. I won't go into the entire occurance but I have posted my past history.

My H still works a seasonal, part-time job with the woman that he was seeing and she is still friends on his FB page. In checking on his activity, I stiil find that he looks at her posts of "cute" pics & sayings and that they still play "Farmtown" daily.

I have found no evidence of their meeting for lunch (which occurred for 2 years w/o my knowledge) or of phone calls or chatting on FB, but am I being a fool to believe that he won't go back to this since he has not nor will not cut off the FB or work contact w/her?

Also, like other readers have posted, I can't seem to get past my anger & it has been 9 mos. since I accidently saw his FB messages with her. Does anyone know how they got past this anger?

06-27-2012, 04:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
mssherlock22 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 33	Opinion Needed On Follow-up On EA I need opinions on the follow-up situation after my discovering my H's EA. I won't go into the entire occurance but I have posted my past history. My H still works a seasonal, part-time job with the woman that he was seeing and she is still friends on his FB page. In checking on his activity, I stiil find that he looks at her posts of "cute" pics & sayings and that they still play "Farmtown" daily. I have found no evidence of their meeting for lunch (which occurred for 2 years w/o my knowledge) or of phone calls or chatting on FB, but am I being a fool to believe that he won't go back to this since he has not nor will not cut off the FB or work contact w/her? Also, like other readers have posted, I can't seem to get past my anger & it has been 9 mos. since I accidently saw his FB messages with her. Does anyone know how they got past this anger? Last edited by mssherlock22; 06-27-2012 at 08:19 PM.