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jwah · 06-27-2012, 10:56 PM

iloveairplanes:

See, I wish I could get him to have sex 1-2 times a week, but we are going on about once every 1-2 months! It sucks.
I have had an affair. My husband knows. One would think that would make it clear how much this is important to me. But it has not.

I do not WANT to have another affair, but I have options, trust me... Morally, that is not what I want to do. I cannot live with myself without feeling awful. To make it worse, my main opportunity for an affair is with an old friend's husband, who is also in the same boat.

An affair will not fix the problem for me, though, because I will still feel unwanted and undesired by my own husband. And he is the most important person to me.

06-27-2012, 10:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
jwah Registered User Join Date: Jun 2012 Posts: 2	Re: My husband does not make me feel desired iloveairplanes: See, I wish I could get him to have sex 1-2 times a week, but we are going on about once every 1-2 months! It sucks. I have had an affair. My husband knows. One would think that would make it clear how much this is important to me. But it has not. I do not WANT to have another affair, but I have options, trust me... Morally, that is not what I want to do. I cannot live with myself without feeling awful. To make it worse, my main opportunity for an affair is with an old friend's husband, who is also in the same boat. An affair will not fix the problem for me, though, because I will still feel unwanted and undesired by my own husband. And he is the most important person to me.