Re: mid-life??
I agree with the above. I understand depression has a devastating effect on a marriage, been there done that. But I did not seek help from another guy. I went to my hubby first. I would seek some counceling for you both. The one thing I worry about is that he used the poor me when he broke out in "I had sex with a woman when we were engaged" and now "I am telling you these other things to make you feel bad for me but I shared all this information with a co-worker instead of you". I'd be careful, myself ,about why he needs to talk to someone else if you have been married so long.
I see everyone's point about mid-life, not partying reality is setting in, but it doesn't give him the right to do lunch with another female. You guys need to open up lines of communication.
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