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Originally Posted by wright1
Where to go from here?
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Counseling, definitely. I would also advise at this point - without her.
This question may seem odd, but I find it can be telling in the event that either or both of you want to attempt to repair your marriage. Take the affair out of the equation, had you already
lost her?
Based upon your statements, it sounds as if your spouse had disengaged from the relationship some time ago.
Unfortunately, I have some personal familiarity with your circumstances. In considering how to move forward, it is crucial that you are honest with yourself in relation to what your marriage truly was ... as opposed to what you wanted, or perceived it to be. Keep that in mind when considering what you are attempting to salvage.