Originally Posted by RainDrops
My husband and I have been married for 14 years.I'm in my early 30's and he is in his mid 30's.He has been addicted to porn for 10 years.We have sex once every 3 months and he has a hard time with an erection.I have tried everything that I can think of to get him to stop but nothing has worked.He is great at making me feel like it's my fault because I"m mad all the time.Any one would be if it was going on for this long. I can't take it anymore.I cry all the time now.I don't know what to do! How can I talk to him without making him mad and shutting down on me?
I am going through the exact same thing. Watch this video, it at least helped me. TEDxGlasgow - Gary Wilson - The Great Porn Experiment - YouTube
My husband has not watched porn for 2 weeks now. And we were intimate after I initiated it. It is a very, very painful thing to go through. I definately feel your pain.